And while I agree that this is a little over the top, I wonder if the use of these terms of endearment is perhaps not such a bad thing. Granted too much can be sickening, but an occasional "Hon" or "Dear" isn't that overstepping... Is it?
We're living in a time when vulgarity, name calling, and hate in speech seem to be the norm. Is it so bad to temper the anger with a little sweetness?
Miriam Margoles OBE is a British actress -- often salty-mouthed and cutting, frequently shocking. Recently I heard her speak on the use of non gender- indicating pronouns. She was bristling at having to use "they" or "them" and also found it confusing. (I, too, while not feeling as strongly, find the use of the plural pronouns a bit baffling. Chalk that up to my teaching English for so many years).
Upon some introspection, however, she realized that this is such a miniscule issue. Furthermore, and most importantly, if it makes someone happy, why not?
Why not, indeed?
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I don't mind a server using such terms of address in a chain or local restaurant, but in a higher-end place, I'd prefer a bit more formality. As for the pronouns, I'm slowly getting used to "they" and "them" as generics, although I think they'll always sound "wrong." And I'll bet the nuns who taught me grade-school English would agree!
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