Today I stayed with our grand daughter in her new house while her mother went to a meeting. We vacuumed a little, unpacked some more toys, sat and watched a little of 'Elmo's World' on
Sesame Street. She asked for a "bottle, please". (I'm aware that many are opposed to two-year olds having a bottle; suffice to say we're not -- it gives them some autonomy and cuts down on messes. If she's walking down the aisle on her wedding day, sucking on a bottle of milk, the 'experts' can all say they told me so.)
I fixed the bottle for her, carried it and her into the living room, and asked, "Would you like to sit on this chair while you drink your milk?" She looked at me and simply said, "No, I sit with Kathy." So there we sat. She with her milk, and I, heart bursting and holding on to her, knowing how ephemeral time is.